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I love your site. The critters are great and I love the Baubles.

Mostly, I'm writing to tell you my latest personal story about being bigger. I just sacrificed 6 years of hair growth. It was well past my hips, thick and rich and healthy and very much a part of my identity. I went in to get a trim and while I was there staring at the mirror, I changed my mind. I had my stylist braid it, cut off the entire braid to donate to Locks Of Love and then style what was left.

I admit that I had to recite to myself 'It'll grow back' the whole time she was cutting the braid off, but I felt great, knowing that the hair was going to a good cause. And I'm loving this short hair in the heat. I forgot how -light- short hair was!

Just think ... if everyone with long hair went in and did the same thing, how many wigs could they make for cancer patients? And it IS only hair and it DOES grow back.

- Jennifer

I came across this and just had to write in because maybe when people see how easy it is to help others they will realize they can do it too?

I give blood even though I always pass out afterwards and Im terrified of needles because I know it makes a difference.

I sometimes take in small animals and find them homes when their owners can no longer care for them, or there's a big litter to care for, because I love all animals big and small and want them to have good homes.

I donate clothes at least once a year, probably closer to twice because I am constantly buying things that I end up hardly ever wearing, why waste?

I am a member of a group called freecycle, and we post things for others to have and "recycle" rather than them going to the trash!

My favorite thing that I have done, though, is that I ran out in the rain to grab my car to pick up a pregnant woman whom I saw waiting with me at the front of the mall. I took her to her car so she wouldn't have to worry because she said she wasnt far away but she was afraid of falling.

Even being patient with retail salespeople makes a difference, YOU can be the one person who makes or breaks a person's day. I'd rather smile!

- Jessica

It is so inspiring to read everyone's stories. Sometimes it just seems like people are getting more bitter and angry these days.

I don't do anything huge, but I do what I can. I think that is what counts, right?

I worked at coffee shops for years, paying my way through school. At the end of the day or the week, there was always tonnes of left over pastry and food. I would wrap it up and hand it out to the homeless people on my way through downtown.

Everytime I clean out my closet (which seems to be a lot) I donate everything that I don't need. It is nice stuff, but why profit when you can help.

Something I have started doing is that I am a self-confessed knitting addict and I don't need anything, so I am going to donate all my projects (mostly scarves and hats) to the Children's Hospital or the cancer wards, depending on the size. What do I need a dozen toques for? I only have one head.

Not much, but it is something, because little drops fill a bucket.

- Stephalupagous

just ran across your website (actually my boyfriend found it first) and i think your be bigger program is great! I live in one of WV's biggest cities, and you would think WV does not have a big homeless situation, but it does. I see these people every day, and it breaks my heart. here's my story:

I was driving home one evening when I saw an older lady on the off ramp at the end of a bridge in my town. She had a sign that said "Please help -- God Bless" and that was it. I couldn't get over to her and had to circle the block to pass her again.

I rolled down my window and she came over to me. She could barely walk, and it was freezing cold. I had a 5 that I was going to hand to her, and I did. She thanked me, but then I thought about seeing her try to walk. She probably didn't travel around a lot. So I said, "Are you hungry?"

She said "Oh yes, ma'am, I'm really hungry."

So, I asked her what she wanted to eat, just name it. She said she didn't care. I asked her if something from the nearby McDonalds would be okay, and what did she like from there? She said hamburgers or anything at all. So, I told her to wait there for me and I would be right back. She tried to give me the 5 back, but I told her to keep it, it was hers.

I drove thru and got her two double cheeseburgers, fries, two apple pies and a large coke. When I took it back to her, she started to cry and I did too a little bit. I asked her if she smoked and she said yes so I gave her a pack of cigarettes I had bought earlier. She thanked me several times and I told her not to worry about it, just to do me a favor and be careful.

That poor old lady just broke my heart. I have never seen her again, so I hope whatever hardship she was having, is over for her now.

Again, your idea is great. If you can get even a few people to make a difference, the world can be better off!

- Stacey

I've been told I'm quite a generous and open-minded type of person. I am an air force brat, so I've been exposed to many different people and places in the short time I've been alive.

At the age of 21, I joined a local non-profit theatrical cast which performs the Rocky Horror Picture Show. There, I met the most ecclectic and interesting people I have ever met in my life. People of every class, race, religion, and orientation. I met a very nice person named Glenn, a gay man who was a bit older than me. I didn't really take the time to get to know him, but I noticed that the rest of the cast sort of avoided him a little. He seemed pretty happy but a little isolated and lonely.

Then one day, I was talking to another fellow castmate, and I had seen a special on AIDS in Africa on TV. I told my friend, "You know what? This may sound sad, but I've never known anyone who has HIV or AIDS." She replied, "Well, you know Glenn, right?" Shamefully, I started to worry. Could I get it from a cut on my arm, being around him? From his sweat when we're acting onstage? I was so disgusted with myself for being so naiive, suddenly believing all the things that I knew were stereotypes, that I had learned in high school were not true.This really bothered my conscience. How could I think things like that? How could I think these things with all the education I have had on the subject in school, year after year?

So, I decided to do something about it. I called up Glenn and asked him if he wanted to go see a live professional theatrical production of the Rocky Horror Show, I had two tickets. We planned on dinner and a movie at his place beforehand. The dinner was delicious, and the movie turned out to be one of my favorites. We chatted about art and theater and cute boys. He threw into the conversation that he is HIV positive, and I told him I knew and had some questions for him so I could familiarize myself with the subject, and he was happy to oblige. We talked about it for quite some time, and he even motivated me to get tested for the first time. I am HIV negative, I found out, and called him up after we saw the production and told him the good news. I have made a wonderful, artsy, classy and humorous friend whos wonderful personality people overlook because of his situation and their ignorance.

After we saw the show, he told it that he had had the most fun he has had in a very long time and invited me to a theatrical production a few weeks later. Now I give him big bear hugs when I see him, to let him know I'm not afraid anymore.

- Amanda

Doesn't everyone help? Wow. I know that sounds naive but I was raised by and around people who always help others. It was never proclaimed in the streets, awards were never given, it's just the way we lived and I continue to live to this day.My parents did not have a lot of money but always helped the neighbors. The neighbors always helped us. I think one misconception is that you have to have money to help. You don't. Can you take an elderly person to a doctor's appointment ? Can you offer a couple hours free babysitting to the young mom who is stressed ? Can you smile at someone who looks like they are having a bad day? It's so easy.I help all the time but never really thought about posting it online before. It's as natural as breathing.

I wish I had more money and could help in that way but I can't. But I can be respectful and kind to people no matter their circumstances, donate items I no longer have use for, etc. I have Bob the cat whom I rescued from the snow when some not so nice people threw him out of their house.(and he is a good kitty!) I really did not want a cat at the time but he wanted me so now he is spoiled rotten in our apartment.:) It's so easy..........BE BIGGER !!!!!

- Sharon

After hurricane Katrina happened, my boyfriend and I put together a box of stuff that we didn't need and weren't using (even toys and stuff that we had saved for his niece) for all the hurricane victims. Toothpaste that we hadn't opened yet, etc. They needed it much more. I've also been wanting to foster some of the animals who were affected, or go down there to help. I'll have to wait to foster until we have a bigger place than this itsy-bitsy apartment, but anyways. It hurts me a lot when other people or animals are hurting. I don't know...I think it's a gift of empathy. I cry and cry...I feel what others feel. It hurt a lot when the hurricane happened. It still hurts. I want to help more. I feel as if I've done nothing. Anyways, I don't know if this is what you are looking for, but here it is.

- Avivah

I wanted to let you know the few things my friend and I do to try to "be bigger."
My friend started to take in Animals to her little apartment, animals that need adoption.
She is their foster parent and she goes out every weekend to try and find the pets a home.
She has them live and play with her until they are adopted.
She doesn't allow them to take the dog back if it has been too long and the society says "they wont be adopted" she will not allow them to be Put to sleep.
She FINDS them a home.
I respect her for this more than she knows.
That is how she tries to "be bigger"
As for me,
I make preemie baby caps for the hospitals.
When babies are born they put the little caps on them at the hospital in the NICU and they get these through donations.
The tiny caps keep a baby who may not live a little warmer at night.
I've also done the March of dimes and raised 500 plus dollars for preemie baby research help.
Anything for children!!
It's the little things in life that make it worth it.
I try to do many little things to BE bigger.
You have a wonderful idea here, and I admire your posting these beautiful stories!

- Sarah

1) When I don't finish my food at a restaurant, I pretty much know that I'm not going to get around to eating the leftovers. My boyfriend and I always get anything left over wrapped up and give it to whoever we see on the street who looks like he or she needs/wants it.

2) I always keep loose change in my coat pocket (instead of my wallet) so I can give it to the homeless people who ask on the street. People say, "but they're probably just buying crack or a 40." I say, whatever gets you through the day. Either way, 50 cents is not that much to me, and it is a lot to the person I give it to.

3) In DC, there is newspaper written and published by the homeless called "Street Sense"; they sell it on the street for whatever amount the seller wants to donate; and in this way, both the homeless people work, and the issues facing them are published. It comes out weekly, and I buy it weekly. I feel this is better than just giving money to someone one the sidewalk because it helps them move forward instead of just offering a temporary fix.

4) Instead of traditional Channukah presents this year, I gave my family gift certificates to JustGive.org, so they could choose which charity received the donation.

- Carolyn

while my "story" happened over a year ago, i thought i'd share it with you for inspiration! i lived in san francisco for nearly two years & anyone who's lived in or visited the sf will tell you the amount of homless is mind blowing. i often walked down powell street to go to class from my dorm, and every morning i passed a young guy in his 20s, who looked like he had recently been "put on the streets" (if you will). people ignored him, along with all the other homeless men and women, but what really got to me was when i heard someone say "you're young, get a job!!!" to him. he normally had a sign set up next to him asking for extra food or drink while he slept. after a few days of getting sick of feeling like my extra quarters in my pocket weren't enough, i went back to my dorm and collected all the food my roommates and i had lying around. it was late and when i found him he was sleeping, so i tucked the food close-by and told myself i'd do it again. in the bag i had added a note, something along the lines of "i hope this helps put a smile on your face!" and i signed it with my name. the next morning while walking to class i stopped at a cross walk waiting for traffic to pass. i just so happened to glance up the street post next to me and read a big cardboard note that said "thank you jaami!". it just about broke my heart!

i continued to collect as much extra food i had, and put a little extra aside every week to buy fruits and easily eaten foods, for him and a few people who were in that area. i have to say that one of the craziest thing, in most people's eyes, is that i befriended a homeless person. we became good pals over time & i was really glad when i found out after a few months that he had been accepted to a certain program where they help younger homeless people get jobs & work experience. it later took him to southern california and last i knew he had a good job and was no longer having to live on sidewalks and eat food scraps.

i'd have to say he (whose name i won't say for privacy reasons) was one of the most inspirational people i've ever met. being able to help him out when noone else would also taught me about myself. it made me proud to stick up for someone who just needed a little extra help and support - if everyone did that the world would be a better place.

- Jaami, plushoctops
biggerNote: See how little it takes to be bigger?

i don't have much money, but when a girl i work with told me how her 23 yr old neighbor's entire family was displaced from louisiana and coming to stay with her in her one bedroom apartment(8 people), i took stock of what i COULD give. got together extra shampoo,toothpaste, etc., clothes, jacket, backpacks and suitcase, toys, phone card, baby clothes and various baby necessities from my sister,blankets, towels, coupons for free fast food, emptied my pantry some, and bought a bunch of good toothbrushes, combs and socks at the dollar store and finally a card saying "we're sorry for what happened to you, but are glad to know you're safe." i was happy to hear that her family was all together. the neighbor could not have possibly been prepared for all of those people
- Amy Sue
Hi there. i haven't done much yet, but i'm trying to do something. i donated some money to the Red Cross, and to the HSUS (Humane Society) Disaster Relief Fund. i've got a big duffel bag of almost new clothes all ready to go to a local shelter. (Who knew compulsive shopping could lead to goodness?) i also wanted to let you know about something insanely wonderful that some Bay Area people organized: There was a major tattoo convention here at the end of August, and a number of tattoo artists from New Orleans were in town, and didn't have anywhere to go home to. So, many well-respected tattoo shops in SF put together "Tattoo Relief," an event at which people got tattoos, and the prices they paid were donated directly to Hurricane Relief charities. i didn't get to participate because i was at work, but i thought it was a beautiful, personally meaningful way for a bunch of people to come together and help out. The displaced tattoo artists are being housed with local artists, and working as guest artists out of local shops until they can get back on their feet.

Keep up the great work and positive message!
- Robin, San Francisco
I've always tried to give what I can, and sometimes some that I can't. I give blood. I donate food to a local charity every month. I buy gifts for less fortunate children during the holidays. I sign petitions, I walk for causes, I donate cold hard cash when I can. I buy wind power for my home, and I buy extra "green certificates" in a pathetic attempt to offset the emissions spewing out of my tailpipe. After Katrina and Rita, I donated money to the Red Cross, finagled TWO companies into matching my donation, registered my home at hurricanehousing.org, and volunteered to foster displaced animals (much to my cats' consernation). And I still want to Be Bigger.
- Gillian, Westminster, Colorado
Gee ... what did I do this week to justify my exsistance? I have a really hard time patting myself on the back - so be gentle with me....
-I spent alot of time trying to figure out where to send money to for victims of Katrina. It is tough for me. I hate to just send $$$ to the Red Cross because there are so many smaller charities that do important work and they cannot wait until they get funding from the big guys like Salvation Army & Red Cross. I found some Houston charities that are helping out mothers and babies from LA (through their local chapter of LaLeche Leauge). These people need diapers .. now... not in three weeks when they get their funds.
- I found out that my yoga teacher's daughter, son in law, and 5 month old baby were displaced by Katrina - so I gave what I could to the fund when I saw the collection jar.... Then gave some more because I was really pissed that it looked like no one else was giving her money. : )
- I always try to find at least one person a day that I can make feel good by complimenting them. Always sincerely. Most of the time it is someone in a store - I let them know that I appreciate it if they have done a good job. I tell other Moms I see something nice about themself - because we Moms always forget about ourselves and get overlooked alot. Little stuff like that. A spoonful weighs a ton.

People should do stuff like this anyway. I feel like a backside for even saying that it is something "good" that I did. You know, being bigger isn't all that big - it seems to me it is just about not being so damned small.
I read children's books once a quarter at a home for battered women and children.
I collect food once a quarter for Second Harvest.
I lead a 'clean bedding' group (at the gym ... it's a Curves, so lots of people have bad things to say about them; but there are pleanty of good women there!) about 2x a year for our local homless shelter. We collect used and new bedding, purchase some at garage sales as well as thrift shops,clean them and hand them out.
November I make 10 fleece blankets for kids in the housing project.
I've also contributed to CFC.
Not even my closest friends know this, but I go bi-weekly to Sequoia Hospital to sit with the Chemo patients and read with them, pray, whatever they need.
This is not to brag, but to give you and others ideas of how they can help. There are so many ways.
Don't forget the Princess Project and other programs like it.
Also, if you have gift cards that are about to expire but you don't really 'need' anything from that store,consider gifting the card or buying a needed item and donating it.
- Deborah
N ote: It's not bragging. And even if it is, you've earned it.
I haven't done that much, but I:

-donated 14 pieces of jewelry to Crafters United, and I'm helping them post new items as they come in
-am donating all my jewelry sales off susanstars.com for the week to the Red Cross too
-searched online for a woman's missing family members through LifeList, and got to call to tell her her brother and sister were at the Astrodome :)
-just sent off a care package to a dear friend who got out of NOLA on Saturday without much of anything--since we wear the same size in clothes and shoes, and she's crafty too, that one was fun!
- Susan, SusanStars.com
N ote: That sure sounds like a lot to us!
this is really inspiring thank you!
Im donating 10% of my sales this month to the red cross
donated 2 items to crafters united
my kids and i bought supplies and dropped them off at a local drop off spot
gave $ to noahswish for the animals
I'm attaching a pic of my amazing nephew Joshua. Josh is a simple 12 year old boy with a hard life. His parents are drug addicts so he doesn't have much, but he finds joy in all the small things that come his way. He loves trucks and Lego's, playing with his dog and riding his bike, he always has a silly story to share and loves getting hugs. He turned twelve this spring and now towers over his "Ant Lindsey" but he still curls up onto my lap and asks for me to read him a story.

He lost almost everything in Hurricane Katrina last week but made it out alive and that's what matters. He's staying with his older sister for now, waiting for his school to re-open and for November to come when my husband and I will go down to visit him and give him all the hugs he doesn't get at home. Joshua's prized possessions weren't PS2 games, an I-Pod or even his beloved bike. It was the box of "New England" paraphernalia he gathered while visiting us a few summers ago. A plain cardboard box filled with a NH t-shirt I made him (but he'd since out grown), a rock he found in Canada (he labeled it "Canadian Rock" w/ a permanent marker of course!) and a scrapbook I put together for him chronicling all the places we went, with ticket stubs, photo's, etc. Over the past week I've gone out and bought clothes, a new Red Sox hat and other goodies for my favorite boy, but the most rewarding is going through the old photo's of his trip here and re-making the scrapbook that he loves so much.

- Lindsey, mypapercrane
Last Friday, I had the day off from work and school, so I called the Red Cross. I wound up working at their warehouse in South Austin for the day, setting up cell phones to be deployed to Louisiana. I've been back twice since, Saturday and today. Yes, it means I've been getting up at 7 a.m., which seems like an obscenely early hour to this graduate student. While the work I've been doing lacks the "human" element of a lot of volunteer work, it is very important to get communications equipment to the field.

In encouraging people to volunteer, I think it's important (at least, it's important to me) to stress that people should volunteer the skills and talents they already have. If you're miserable doing volunteer work, you're doing the wrong volunteer work. Every talent and passion you have is something you can share.


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