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| I love your site. The critters
are great and I love the Baubles.
Mostly, I'm writing to tell you my latest personal
story about being bigger. I just sacrificed 6
years of hair growth. It was well past my hips,
thick and rich and healthy and very much a part
of my identity. I went in to get a trim and while
I was there staring at the mirror, I changed my
mind. I had my stylist braid it, cut off the entire
braid to donate to Locks Of Love and then style
what was left.
I admit that I had to recite to myself 'It'll
grow back' the whole time she was cutting the
braid off, but I felt great, knowing that the
hair was going to a good cause. And I'm loving
this short hair in the heat. I forgot how -light-
short hair was!
Just think ... if everyone with long hair went
in and did the same thing, how many wigs could
they make for cancer patients? And it IS only
hair and it DOES grow back.
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| I came across this and just had
to write in because maybe when people see how easy
it is to help others they will realize they can
do it too? I give blood
even though I always pass out afterwards and Im
terrified of needles because I know it makes a
difference.
I sometimes take in small animals
and find them homes when their owners can no longer
care for them, or there's a big litter to care
for, because I love all animals big and small
and want them to have good homes.
I donate clothes at least once
a year, probably closer to twice because I am
constantly buying things that I end up hardly
ever wearing, why waste?
I am a member of a group called
freecycle, and we post things for others to have
and "recycle" rather than them going
to the trash!
My favorite thing that I have
done, though, is that I ran out in the rain to
grab my car to pick up a pregnant woman whom I
saw waiting with me at the front of the mall.
I took her to her car so she wouldn't have to
worry because she said she wasnt far away but
she was afraid of falling.
Even being patient with retail
salespeople makes a difference, YOU can be the
one person who makes or breaks a person's day.
I'd rather smile! |
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| It is so inspiring to read everyone's
stories. Sometimes it just seems like people are
getting more bitter and angry these days.
I don't do anything huge, but
I do what I can. I think that is what counts,
right?
I worked at coffee shops for years,
paying my way through school. At the end of the
day or the week, there was always tonnes of left
over pastry and food. I would wrap it up and hand
it out to the homeless people on my way through
downtown.
Everytime I clean out my closet
(which seems to be a lot) I donate everything
that I don't need. It is nice stuff, but why profit
when you can help.
Something I have started doing
is that I am a self-confessed knitting addict
and I don't need anything, so I am going to donate
all my projects (mostly scarves and hats) to the
Children's Hospital or the cancer wards, depending
on the size. What do I need a dozen toques for?
I only have one head.
Not much, but it is something,
because little drops fill a bucket. |
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just ran across your website (actually
my boyfriend found it first) and i think your be
bigger program is great! I live in one of WV's biggest
cities, and you would think WV does not have a big
homeless situation, but it does. I see these people
every day, and it breaks my heart. here's my story:
I was driving home one evening when I saw an older
lady on the off ramp at the end of a bridge in my
town. She had a sign that said "Please help
-- God Bless" and that was it. I couldn't get
over to her and had to circle the block to pass
her again. I rolled down
my window and she came over to me. She could barely
walk, and it was freezing cold. I had a 5 that
I was going to hand to her, and I did. She thanked
me, but then I thought about seeing her try to
walk. She probably didn't travel around a lot.
So I said, "Are you hungry?"
She said "Oh yes, ma'am, I'm really hungry."
So, I asked her what she wanted
to eat, just name it. She said she didn't care.
I asked her if something from the nearby McDonalds
would be okay, and what did she like from there?
She said hamburgers or anything at all. So, I
told her to wait there for me and I would be right
back. She tried to give me the 5 back, but I told
her to keep it, it was hers.
I drove thru and got her two double
cheeseburgers, fries, two apple pies and a large
coke. When I took it back to her, she started
to cry and I did too a little bit. I asked her
if she smoked and she said yes so I gave her a
pack of cigarettes I had bought earlier. She thanked
me several times and I told her not to worry about
it, just to do me a favor and be careful.
That poor old lady just broke
my heart. I have never seen her again, so I hope
whatever hardship she was having, is over for
her now.
Again, your idea is great. If you can get even
a few people to make a difference, the world can
be better off! |
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| I've been told I'm quite a generous
and open-minded type of person. I am an air force
brat, so I've been exposed to many different people
and places in the short time I've been alive.
At the age of 21, I joined a local
non-profit theatrical cast which performs the
Rocky Horror Picture Show. There, I met the most
ecclectic and interesting people I have ever met
in my life. People of every class, race, religion,
and orientation. I met a very nice person named
Glenn, a gay man who was a bit older than me.
I didn't really take the time to get to know him,
but I noticed that the rest of the cast sort of
avoided him a little. He seemed pretty happy but
a little isolated and lonely.
Then one day, I was talking to
another fellow castmate, and I had seen a special
on AIDS in Africa on TV. I told my friend, "You
know what? This may sound sad, but I've never
known anyone who has HIV or AIDS." She replied,
"Well, you know Glenn, right?" Shamefully,
I started to worry. Could I get it from a cut
on my arm, being around him? From his sweat when
we're acting onstage? I was so disgusted with
myself for being so naiive, suddenly believing
all the things that I knew were stereotypes, that
I had learned in high school were not true.This
really bothered my conscience. How could I think
things like that? How could I think these things
with all the education I have had on the subject
in school, year after year?
So, I decided to do something
about it. I called up Glenn and asked him if he
wanted to go see a live professional theatrical
production of the Rocky Horror Show, I had two
tickets. We planned on dinner and a movie at his
place beforehand. The dinner was delicious, and
the movie turned out to be one of my favorites.
We chatted about art and theater and cute boys.
He threw into the conversation that he is HIV
positive, and I told him I knew and had some questions
for him so I could familiarize myself with the
subject, and he was happy to oblige. We talked
about it for quite some time, and he even motivated
me to get tested for the first time. I am HIV
negative, I found out, and called him up after
we saw the production and told him the good news.
I have made a wonderful, artsy, classy and humorous
friend whos wonderful personality people overlook
because of his situation and their ignorance.
After we saw the show, he told
it that he had had the most fun he has had in
a very long time and invited me to a theatrical
production a few weeks later. Now I give him big
bear hugs when I see him, to let him know I'm
not afraid anymore. |
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Doesn't everyone help? Wow. I
know that sounds naive but I was raised by and around
people who always help others. It was never proclaimed
in the streets, awards were never given, it's just
the way we lived and I continue to live to this
day.My parents did not have a lot of money but always
helped the neighbors. The neighbors always helped
us. I think one misconception is that you have to
have money to help. You don't. Can you take an elderly
person to a doctor's appointment ? Can you offer
a couple hours free babysitting to the young mom
who is stressed ? Can you smile at someone who looks
like they are having a bad day? It's so easy.I help
all the time but never really thought about posting
it online before. It's as natural as breathing.
I wish I had more money and could help in that way
but I can't. But I can be respectful and kind to
people no matter their circumstances, donate items
I no longer have use for, etc. I have Bob the cat
whom I rescued from the snow when some not so nice
people threw him out of their house.(and he is a
good kitty!) I really did not want a cat at the
time but he wanted me so now he is spoiled rotten
in our apartment.:) It's so easy..........BE BIGGER
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| After hurricane Katrina happened,
my boyfriend and I put together a box of stuff that
we didn't need and weren't using (even toys and
stuff that we had saved for his niece) for all the
hurricane victims. Toothpaste that we hadn't opened
yet, etc. They needed it much more. I've also been
wanting to foster some of the animals who were affected,
or go down there to help. I'll have to wait to foster
until we have a bigger place than this itsy-bitsy
apartment, but anyways. It hurts me a lot when other
people or animals are hurting. I don't know...I
think it's a gift of empathy. I cry and cry...I
feel what others feel. It hurt a lot when the hurricane
happened. It still hurts. I want to help more. I
feel as if I've done nothing. Anyways, I don't know
if this is what you are looking for, but here it
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I wanted to let you know the few
things my friend and I do to try to "be bigger."
My friend started to take in Animals to her little
apartment, animals that need adoption.
She is their foster parent and she goes out every
weekend to try and find the pets a home.
She has them live and play with her until they are
adopted.
She doesn't allow them to take the dog back if it
has been too long and the society says "they
wont be adopted" she will not allow them to
be Put to sleep.
She FINDS them a home.
I respect her for this more than she knows.
That is how she tries to "be bigger"
As for me,
I make preemie baby caps for the hospitals.
When babies are born they put the little caps on
them at the hospital in the NICU and they get these
through donations.
The tiny caps keep a baby who may not live a little
warmer at night.
I've also done the March of dimes and raised 500
plus dollars for preemie baby research help.
Anything for children!!
It's the little things in life that make it worth
it.
I try to do many little things to BE bigger.
You have a wonderful idea here, and I admire your
posting these beautiful stories! |
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| 1) When I don't finish my food
at a restaurant, I pretty much know that I'm not
going to get around to eating the leftovers. My
boyfriend and I always get anything left over wrapped
up and give it to whoever we see on the street who
looks like he or she needs/wants it. 2)
I always keep loose change in my coat pocket (instead
of my wallet) so I can give it to the homeless
people who ask on the street. People say, "but
they're probably just buying crack or a 40."
I say, whatever gets you through the day. Either
way, 50 cents is not that much to me, and it is
a lot to the person I give it to.
3) In DC, there is newspaper written
and published by the homeless called "Street
Sense"; they sell it on the street for whatever
amount the seller wants to donate; and in this
way, both the homeless people work, and the issues
facing them are published. It comes out weekly,
and I buy it weekly. I feel this is better than
just giving money to someone one the sidewalk
because it helps them move forward instead of
just offering a temporary fix.
4) Instead of traditional Channukah
presents this year, I gave my family gift certificates
to JustGive.org, so they could choose which charity
received the donation. |
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while my "story" happened
over a year ago, i thought i'd share it with you
for inspiration! i lived in san francisco for nearly
two years & anyone who's lived in or visited
the sf will tell you the amount of homless is mind
blowing. i often walked down powell street to go
to class from my dorm, and every morning i passed
a young guy in his 20s, who looked like he had recently
been "put on the streets" (if you will).
people ignored him, along with all the other homeless
men and women, but what really got to me was when
i heard someone say "you're young, get a job!!!"
to him. he normally had a sign set up next to him
asking for extra food or drink while he slept. after
a few days of getting sick of feeling like my extra
quarters in my pocket weren't enough, i went back
to my dorm and collected all the food my roommates
and i had lying around. it was late and when i found
him he was sleeping, so i tucked the food close-by
and told myself i'd do it again. in the bag i had
added a note, something along the lines of "i
hope this helps put a smile on your face!"
and i signed it with my name. the next morning while
walking to class i stopped at a cross walk waiting
for traffic to pass. i just so happened to glance
up the street post next to me and read a big cardboard
note that said "thank you jaami!". it
just about broke my heart!
i continued to collect as much extra food i had,
and put a little extra aside every week to buy fruits
and easily eaten foods, for him and a few people
who were in that area. i have to say that one of
the craziest thing, in most people's eyes, is that
i befriended a homeless person. we became good pals
over time & i was really glad when i found out
after a few months that he had been accepted to
a certain program where they help younger homeless
people get jobs & work experience. it later
took him to southern california and last i knew
he had a good job and was no longer having to live
on sidewalks and eat food scraps.
i'd have to say he (whose name i won't say for
privacy reasons) was one of the most inspirational
people i've ever met. being able to help him out
when noone else would also taught me about myself.
it made me proud to stick up for someone who just
needed a little extra help and support - if everyone
did that the world would be a better place.
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- Jaami, plushoctops
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| i don't have much money, but when
a girl i work with told me how her 23 yr old neighbor's
entire family was displaced from louisiana and coming
to stay with her in her one bedroom apartment(8
people), i took stock of what i COULD give. got
together extra shampoo,toothpaste, etc., clothes,
jacket, backpacks and suitcase, toys, phone card,
baby clothes and various baby necessities from my
sister,blankets, towels, coupons for free fast food,
emptied my pantry some, and bought a bunch of good
toothbrushes, combs and socks at the dollar store
and finally a card saying "we're sorry for
what happened to you, but are glad to know you're
safe." i was happy to hear that her family
was all together. the neighbor could not have possibly
been prepared for all of those people |
| - Amy Sue |
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Hi there. i haven't done much
yet, but i'm trying to do something. i donated some
money to the Red Cross, and to the HSUS (Humane
Society) Disaster Relief Fund. i've got a big duffel
bag of almost new clothes all ready to go to a local
shelter. (Who knew compulsive shopping could lead
to goodness?) i also wanted to let you know about
something insanely wonderful that some Bay Area
people organized: There was a major tattoo convention
here at the end of August, and a number of tattoo
artists from New Orleans were in town, and didn't
have anywhere to go home to. So, many well-respected
tattoo shops in SF put together "Tattoo Relief,"
an event at which people got tattoos, and the prices
they paid were donated directly to Hurricane Relief
charities. i didn't get to participate because i
was at work, but i thought it was a beautiful, personally
meaningful way for a bunch of people to come together
and help out. The displaced tattoo artists are being
housed with local artists, and working as guest
artists out of local shops until they can get back
on their feet.
Keep up the great work and positive message! |
| - Robin,
San Francisco |
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| I've always tried to give what
I can, and sometimes some that I can't. I give blood.
I donate food to a local charity every month. I
buy gifts for less fortunate children during the
holidays. I sign petitions, I walk for causes, I
donate cold hard cash when I can. I buy wind power
for my home, and I buy extra "green certificates"
in a pathetic attempt to offset the emissions spewing
out of my tailpipe. After Katrina and Rita, I donated
money to the Red Cross, finagled TWO companies into
matching my donation, registered my home at hurricanehousing.org,
and volunteered to foster displaced animals (much
to my cats' consernation). And I still want to Be
Bigger. |
| - Gillian,
Westminster, Colorado |
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Gee ... what did I do this week
to justify my exsistance? I have a really hard time
patting myself on the back - so be gentle with me....
-I spent alot of time trying to figure out where
to send money to for victims of Katrina. It is tough
for me. I hate to just send $$$ to the Red Cross
because there are so many smaller charities that
do important work and they cannot wait until they
get funding from the big guys like Salvation Army
& Red Cross. I found some Houston charities
that are helping out mothers and babies from LA
(through their local chapter of LaLeche Leauge).
These people need diapers .. now... not in three
weeks when they get their funds.
- I found out that my yoga teacher's daughter, son
in law, and 5 month old baby were displaced by Katrina
- so I gave what I could to the fund when I saw
the collection jar.... Then gave some more because
I was really pissed that it looked like no one else
was giving her money. : )
- I always try to find at least one person a day
that I can make feel good by complimenting them.
Always sincerely. Most of the time it is someone
in a store - I let them know that I appreciate it
if they have done a good job. I tell other Moms
I see something nice about themself - because we
Moms always forget about ourselves and get overlooked
alot. Little stuff like that. A spoonful weighs
a ton.
People should do stuff like this anyway. I feel
like a backside for even saying that it is something
"good" that I did. You know, being bigger
isn't all that big - it seems to me it is just about
not being so damned small. |
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I read children's books once a
quarter at a home for battered women and children.
I collect food once a quarter for Second Harvest.
I lead a 'clean bedding' group (at the gym ... it's
a Curves, so lots of people have bad things to say
about them; but there are pleanty of good women
there!) about 2x a year for our local homless shelter.
We collect used and new bedding, purchase some at
garage sales as well as thrift shops,clean them
and hand them out.
November I make 10 fleece blankets for kids in the
housing project.
I've also contributed to CFC.
Not even my closest friends know this, but I go
bi-weekly to Sequoia Hospital to sit with the Chemo
patients and read with them, pray, whatever they
need.
This is not to brag, but to give you and others
ideas of how they can help. There are so many ways.
Don't forget the Princess Project and other programs
like it.
Also, if you have gift cards that are about to expire
but you don't really 'need' anything from that store,consider
gifting the card or buying a needed item and donating
it. |
| - Deborah
N ote: It's not bragging. And even if it is, you've
earned it. |
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I haven't done that much, but I:
-donated 14 pieces of jewelry to Crafters United,
and I'm helping them post new items as they come
in
-am donating all my jewelry sales off susanstars.com
for the week to the Red Cross too
-searched online for a woman's missing family members
through LifeList, and got to call to tell her her
brother and sister were at the Astrodome :)
-just sent off a care package to a dear friend who
got out of NOLA on Saturday without much of anything--since
we wear the same size in clothes and shoes, and
she's crafty too, that one was fun! |
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this is really inspiring thank
you!
Im donating 10% of my sales this month to the red
cross
donated 2 items to crafters united
my kids and i bought supplies and dropped them off
at a local drop off spot
gave $ to noahswish for the animals |
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I'm attaching a pic of my amazing
nephew Joshua. Josh is a simple 12 year old boy
with a hard life. His parents are drug addicts so
he doesn't have much, but he finds joy in all the
small things that come his way. He loves trucks
and Lego's, playing with his dog and riding his
bike, he always has a silly story to share and loves
getting hugs. He turned twelve this spring and now
towers over his "Ant Lindsey" but he still
curls up onto my lap and asks for me to read him
a story. He lost almost
everything in Hurricane Katrina last week but
made it out alive and that's what matters. He's
staying with his older sister for now, waiting
for his school to re-open and for November to
come when my husband and I will go down to visit
him and give him all the hugs he doesn't get at
home. Joshua's prized possessions weren't PS2
games, an I-Pod or even his beloved bike. It was
the box of "New England" paraphernalia
he gathered while visiting us a few summers ago.
A plain cardboard box filled with a NH t-shirt
I made him (but he'd since out grown), a rock
he found in Canada (he labeled it "Canadian
Rock" w/ a permanent marker of course!) and
a scrapbook I put together for him chronicling
all the places we went, with ticket stubs, photo's,
etc. Over the past week I've gone out and bought
clothes, a new Red Sox hat and other goodies for
my favorite boy, but the most rewarding is going
through the old photo's of his trip here and re-making
the scrapbook that he loves so much. |
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| Last Friday, I had the day off
from work and school, so I called the Red Cross.
I wound up working at their warehouse in South Austin
for the day, setting up cell phones to be deployed
to Louisiana. I've been back twice since, Saturday
and today. Yes, it means I've been getting up at
7 a.m., which seems like an obscenely early hour
to this graduate student. While the work I've been
doing lacks the "human" element of a lot
of volunteer work, it is very important to get communications
equipment to the field.
In encouraging people to volunteer, I think it's
important (at least, it's important to me) to
stress that people should volunteer the skills
and talents they already have. If you're miserable
doing volunteer work, you're doing the wrong volunteer
work. Every talent and passion you have is something
you can share.
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